Thursday, April 2, 2009

Transitional sober living after a rehabilitation center

Someone recently asked me if I thought transitional sober living was necessary to stay sober after an addiction recovery program at a rehabilitation center. While nothing is “necessary” to stay clean and sober except a daily decision to remain that way, transitional sober living is definitely helpful to early sobriety. Basically, sober living eases the transition between a rehabilitation center and the fast pace of everyday life.

Transitional sober living facts

The purpose of a transitional sober living home is to reintegrate you into society at your own pace. Here’s a common example of someone benefitting from sober living: the person who burdens themselves way too much after leaving an addiction recovery program. When we’re using drugs and alcohol, most of our energy is being sapped by our addiction. However, once someone gets clean and sober at a rehabilitation center, they usually notice a tremendous surge in their energy levels. They may find they’ve forgotten about goals they’ve had for years, or they may decide they like a whole new set of hobbies.

Many people “go back out”—that is to say, they get drunk or high—soon after finishing a addiction recovery program and leaving the rehabilitation center. This is because drug and alcohol abuse is the only coping mechanism they have made to handle life’s issues. If they don’t do a good job of learning new coping mechanisms while in a rehabilitation center, these recovering addicts don’t have much hope of sticking with their treatment plan.

Transitional sober living helps center these people and keep their focus on recovery during these first few months after rehab. Too many recovering addicts leave a rehabilitation center and get two jobs and a girlfriend and start school and start volunteering and so on. Transitional sober living gives you the opportunity to try your hand at all of life’s new challenges, while also giving you a safe space to come home to, where you and your fellows all have common goals.

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Thursday, January 29, 2009

FAQ Series: Is transitional sober living necessary?

I was recently asked by someone about to finish a drug rehab program in a rehabilitation center whether I thought transitional sober living was necessary for them to stay sober. The short answer to that is that nothing is “necessary” to stay clean and sober except a daily decision to remain that way. However transitional sober living definitely helps people who are newly sober stay that way after they leave a rehabilitation center.

Transitional sober living eases you back into life after a drug rehab program
Many people “go back out”—that is to say, they get drunk or high—soon after finishing a drug rehab program and leaving the rehabilitation center. This is because drug and alcohol abuse is the only coping mechanism they have made to handle life’s issues. If they don’t do a good job of learning new coping mechanisms while in a rehabilitation center, these recovering addicts don’t have much hope of sticking with their treatment plan.

The purpose of a transitional sober living home is to reintegrate you into society at your own pace. While I’ve already given the example of the person who “can’t handle life” once he gets out of a drug rehab program, I’ll now give you the more common example: someone who tries to take on way too much for their own good. When we’re using drugs and alcohol, most of our energy is being sapped by our addiction. However, once someone gets clean and sober at a rehabilitation center, they usually notice a tremendous surge in their energy levels. They may find they’ve forgotten about goals they’ve had for years, or they may decide they like a whole new set of hobbies.

Transitional sober living helps center these people and keep their focus on recovery during these first few months after rehab. Too many recovering addicts leave a rehabilitation center and get two jobs and a girlfriend and start school and start volunteering and so on. Transitional sober living gives you the opportunity to try your hand at all of life’s new challenges, while also giving you a safe space to come home to, where you and your fellows all have common goals.

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Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Orange County sober living doesn’t cost a ton

I found myself in an unfortunate situation a couple weeks ago. I was just about to be released from an affordable alcohol rehab in Orange County. Sober living was discussed with me in many of the counseling sessions throughout my stay at the affordable alcohol rehab. However, I didn’t feel like I needed transitional sober living. I thought that I needed to jump back out into the world and tear off like a bull at all the pent-up issues I had discovered in treatment.

Transitional sober living probably saved my life
Whoops! Good thing I didn’t go too far with this plan. The truth is, transitional sober living was exactly what I needed, even though I was trying to act tough and strong by never taking the suggestion seriously. The second I got back to my home where I lived with my girlfriend, I knew I had made a mistake by not entering the Orange County sober living home my affordable alcohol rehab was affiliated with. My girlfriend was hardly supportive of my desire to get clean and sober. She tried to push booze on me every day I was back at my house.

Newly single, and needing more help, I inquired about transitional sober living
I went back to the rehab and asked to see the Orange County sober living home they were talking about all those times before. Now I know why it’s called “transitional sober living”; it helps me transition back into the stresses and challenges of life at a pace that my recovery can handle. I’ve been in this beautiful Orange County sober living home for men now for a couple weeks, and I feel so lucky that this is my new life. Not only was I lucky enough to find an affordable alcohol rehab, I found one that cared enough about my long-term sobriety to continually suggest a transitional sober living home for me after my release.

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